According to Urie
Bronfenbrenner, children should be viewed within the complex systems of their
changing environment, such as family, extended family, school, friends,
organization, government, and culture, which significantly affect children’s social,
emotional, and cognitive development and the forming of social identities (Arndt
& McGuire-Schwartz, 2008). From the complex systems, children learn about
their own and others’ personal and social identities through both overt and
covert messages, including some “-isms”, such as racism, gender stereotyping
and sexism, classism, ableism, ageism and so on (Derman-Sparks & Edwards,
2010).
As for me, the most
obvious “-isms” that I have experienced and been experienced are sexism and
racism. Sexism is prevalent in the environment where I grew up. People
stereotypically thinks that men are stronger than women in any aspect; that
they should be provided with better conditions to grow and develop so that they
could take more responsibility for and contribute more to their family; that
women should give up some chances and take care more of the family; and so on.
For example, I have been spending more time pursuing my career as a teacher in
an international school; relatively, I have spent less time considering my
marriage, which worries my families who think that the better future for women
is to have a good marriage rather than to have a good career. This is gender
stereotyping and sexism. After learning about human diversity, “-isms” and
anti-bias education, I pay more attention to the issues related to gender and
sexism since I have experienced what impact this -ism has brought to me.
Affected by sexism, I feel my gender identity is devalued and unrecognized,
which has a negative impact on my emotional and social development. I felt less
confident when collaborating with men, or emotionally hurt when compared with
men. My personal experience of sexism makes me realize that I should be on my
guard against what children, parents and teachers communicate and interact, to
see if sexism exists in their messages in a overt or covert way. If so, I would
use an anti-bias approach to address this issue, such as using a persona dolls,
reading books without gender stereotyping words, thoughts and illustrations, or
some follow-up activities to let children find out both girls and boys are
equitable.
Racism exists
mostly in my workplace, which actually is conveyed unnoticeably by other
international teachers with good intentions. For example, in order for children
to learn English better, some teachers would stress more on speaking English
rather than their home languages, which makes children’s home culture invisible
and shows bias toward their languages. One experience that I had regarding
racism is when I had lunch with another teacher from other country. She
commented that how come Chinese people can eat fish with bones. Her facial expression
and words made me feel discomfort and biased. Several experiences that I had
were related to Chinese food and culture. This kind of experiences make me
think that each person and each culture has its own way, that what we should do
is to recognize those differences, value them and respect them, instead of
bringing in stereotyping thoughts and attitudes, which I gain from learning these
courses related to diversity. Therefore, when working with families and
children, I would observe how children and families interact with each other; I
would find ways to gain some information about their beliefs, values and home
culture; I would pay attention to my words to avoid stereotyping; I would
listen to what children want to convey to check if there is racism hidden in
their words.
As stated, “it is
essential to becoming effective anti-biased educators that we examine each
aspect of who we are in order to understand fully how our identities influence
how we relate to people. Understanding these dynamics in your life will
strengthen your awareness of, sensitivity to, and empathy for the personal and
social identity development of children and families you serve” (Derman-Sparks
& Edwards, 2010, p.23).
References:
Arndt, J. S., &
McGuire-Schwartz, M. (2008). Early childhood school success: Recognizing
families as integral partners. Childhood Education, 84(5), 281.
Retrieved from the Walden Library using the Education Research Complete
database: http://ezp.waldenulibrary.org/login?url=http://proquest.umi.com.ezp.waldenulibrary.org/pqdweb?did=1507312931&sid=2&Fmt=3&clientId=70192&RQT=309&VName=PQD
Derman-Sparks, L.,
& Olsen Edwards, J. (2010). Anti-bias education for young children and
ourselves. Washington, D.C.: National Association for the Education of Young
Children (NAEYC).
Xiaowan,
回复删除Great blog! I think what you discussed in terms of observing children interacting with their families is so relevant. Throughout my own study and progression in this program, it has become a professional goal of mine to listen and facilitate more, and talk less. I think there is so much we can learn about different cultures and perspectives by listening.
Xiaowan,
回复删除Great blog! I love the statement, "seek to understand." I believe we spend too much time talking and assuming, instead of asking questions and listening to learn and understand another individual. This is another great quote. "Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing." - Rollo May
Xiaowan,
回复删除It sounds like your own experiences with sexism have motivated you to help children understand the equality of gender. Even though it is a big adult issue there are a lot of ways to present it to children. You mentioned persona dolls which I feel is a great way to address the topic. Plus they are fun!