It is startling when I knew that violence causes more deaths of children than do any other specific diseases. (Berger, 2012) Except for the injuries, child maltreatment is another reason that causes child deaths. Child maltreatment, including child abuse and child neglect, affects children’s multifaceted developments, namely, physical development, social and emotional development, and cognitive development, the two latter ones of which are more devastatingly influenced in children’s future life.
I still remember the boy in my neighbour named Hua, 5 years old, who underwent the suffering of child neglect in his early childhood. Both of his parents were businessmen. They worked in the same company and were quite successful in their field. Actually they lived in a wealthy life. However, in order to fulfil their own career aspiration, they were busy working and travelling around the world, leaving their child, Hua, to a nanny and paying little attention to Hua’s physical and psychological growth. All that the nanny could do was to ensure that Hua could have every meal on time; however, she could not help much on his social and emotional needs. When I met him in the leisure area for our community, I saw him play alone without interactions with his peers, and talk little and even be silent if verbal communication was not needed; I seldom saw him laugh and even smile. Instead, he cried a lot when he came across some problems. Once I saw him with his parents in the street, Hua refusing to hold his parents’ hand and parents having no idea about how to deal with this situation. I think this probably results from lack of time and communication with his parents and being neglected. I don’t think the parents would realise what their neglect toward their child brought him until a call from preschool reached them. I heard that Hua didn’t get along well with his peers and had a fight with one of his peers, resulting from toys being grabbed by his peer and resulting in this peer being hit hard with the toy and bit by Hua. With the help of the teachers and the parenting consultant from the preschool, Hua’s parents were aware that their absence in interactions with their child and their neglect toward their child had a negative impact on the child’s social and emotional development and even cognitive development. From then on, I saw the parents spend more time playing with Hua in the leisure area and heard that Hua’s teachers spoke well of Hua’s interactions at school. With the support of parents and teachers, Hua became more outgoing, confident in communicating with others, and showed his happy face more often.
Child maltreatment in developed and developing nations results from multifaceted reasons, but mainly from family financial stress. It is surprising to find that US, which is ranked first in gross domestic product globally, is ranked "25th of 27 among developed nations based on the rate of child deaths from abuse and neglect”. The statistics shows that "in 2011, 676,569 children in US were determined to be victims of abuse or neglect”, 78% of which were victims of neglect and 18% of which were victims of physical abuse. It is estimated that there are "1,570 child fatality victims per year due to maltreatment in the U.S.”. (First Star, 2013) I can not imagine the statistics of child maltreatment in other developing countries. As studied, child maltreatment affects children "now and later”, physically, psychologically, behaviourally and economically. (CDC, 2014)
Physically, it can cause improper formation and function of the brain, leading to negative long-term impacts on cognitive, language, and socio-emotional development, and mental and physical health of the child. Psychologically, maltreatment may "result in anxiety and may make victims more vulnerable to problems such as post-traumatic stress disorder, conduct disorder, and learning, attention, and memory difficulties”. Behaviourally, children who are maltreated in early childhood are more likely to have such behaviours as smoking, alcohol abuse and drug abuse, etc. in adulthood. What’s more, it is hard to build up a healthy relationship and maintain it between people who experience maltreatment in childhood. Economically, "the estimated average lifetime cost per victim of nonfatal child maltreatment is $210,012 dollars (in 2010), including childhood health care costs, adult medical costs, productivity losses, child welfare costs, criminal justice costs and special education costs, etc.. (CDC, 2014)
“The causes of child maltreatment are multifaceted, involving not only the parents but also the neighbours, the teachers, the medical community, the culture, and even the maltreated children themselves.” (Berger, 2012, p. 247) Therefore, it is everyone’s responsibility to take measures to prevent child maltreatment.
In US, some effectives programs are offered to help parents and their parenting skills.
- visits by nurses to parents and children in their homes to provide support, education, and information;
- parent education, usually delivered in groups, to improve child-rearing skills, increase knowledge of child development, and encourage positive child management strategies; and
- multi-component interventions, which typically include support and education of parents, pre-school education, and child care. (Retrieved from WHO http://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs150/en/)
Children are our hope. Children are the future of our society. I, hereby, advocate for children, hoping for the reduction of child maltreatment.
Reference:
Berger, K. S. (2012). The developing person through childhood (6th ed.). New York, NY: Worth Publishers. Chapter 8, "Early Childhood: Biosocial Development”.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). (2014). Child Maltreatment: Consequences. Retrieved March 25th, 2014 from http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/childmaltreatment/consequences.html
First Star. (2013). Child Abuse and Neglect Statistics. Retrieved March 25th, 2014 from http://www.firststar.org/library/national-statistics.aspx
World Health Organization (WHO). (2014). Child maltreatment. Retrieved March 25th, 2014 from http://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs150/en/